艺萌

最近在美国跟刀郎一起爆火的是电影《芭比》，女友们相约一起去吃午饭然后去看“芭比”。女儿已经跟朋友们去看了，回来带着一副心满意足的喜悦表情，不用说一定好看。我相信女儿对电影的眼光。这个成人童话电影能有这么样的高的票房着实让我惊讶。

我们提前到了Mall里的影院，才意识到我和艾丽丝没有像其他两位女友一样着粉。嘻哈之间我俩就从Old Navy 一人买了一件粉红。艾丽丝是短袖，而我的是一件背心。当场换上。奇妙的事情发生了，四个女粉一起在芭比的招贴画前合影时，每个人都心情大好，像回到了童年时光。观看的时候，影院里充满欢声笑语。让芭比为代表的女性主义者在女权社会里过了一把瘾。里面的一段长篇独白更使剧情达到了高潮。

对白中的一些用语让有些成人不免担心，对于特别天真无暇的小女孩带去看是否合适？和我们一同走出影院的是母女四口，令人印象深刻。妈妈以及三个眼睛亮晶晶身上粉嘟嘟的Q版女娃。我觉得这种担忧怕是多余的。

（下面是卡通后的我们。）后来在艺术家朋友米琪家喝茶，她看着我的芭比粉，笑说这不是我的惯常衣着，但是它在我身上很漂亮，因为这件吊带背心的芭比粉是高级粉，英文是salmon pink。

那还用说，我很得意。好，放上来给大家看一看什么是高级粉。呵呵。

我的童年没有粉红芭比，一箱子芭比娃和为芭比设计时装那是我女儿的童年。既然童年没啥美好，我当然不愿意再回到童年。

那些从小着绿披红，舞枪弄棒的女小将们，如今的她们，回忆中除了唱红歌就是跳红舞，不知美丑更何论是非。确实是一方水土养一方人。

最后分享一诗+画。

脸书上有一位诗人，可能不少人知道他。某天我翻看脸书发现他为我的一幅画题了首诗，我是十万分之荣幸，叩首。

一棵樹的自白

紅雨

愛情都會凍僵的季節

海已結冰，山亦冬眠

只有一棵樹能撐起黃昏的絢麗

無須花枝招展，不用綠意盎然

讓枝椏如骨頭般倔強地伸展

以肢體語言闡釋，什麼叫迎風站

風懂，雪懂，你懂，他懂

滾燙的情話太多太多

整個冬天我都靠它取暖度過嚴寒

海誓山盟在年輪中依然泛著漣漪

冰雪消融大雁北回春天歸來

我會以花的顏色花的芳香

安慰長椅上獨坐的人

因为芭比，我最近心情比较卡通，分享几幅比较童话的作品：

连给先生祝寿的作品也充满卡通味儿。居然还用了芭比粉：

另一面：

愿每一份的美好都伴随着你。

祝各位周末愉快！ 谢谢驻足点赞并留言

附上那一段长篇独白，有兴趣的可以阅读一下

看看身为女性的你是否心有戚戚焉

"It is literally impossible to be a woman.

You are very beautiful and very smart... and it breaks my soul that you think you're not good enough, like we're always supposed to be extraordinary, but somehow we're always doing it wrong.

We have to be skinny, but not too much and you must not say you want to be skinny. You must say you want a healthy weight, but also… YES you have to be skinny.

You must have money, but you can’t ask for money because that would be rude.

You gotta be a boss, but you can't be tough. You must lead, but you cannot crush other people’s ideas.

You’re supposed to love being a mom, but you don’t talk about your kids all the time.

You have to be a professional, but also always take care of everyone else.

You are responsible for men’s misbehavior, WHICH IS CRAZY, but if you notice that, you’re accused of being a whine.

You're expected to keep yourself pretty for men, but not so pretty you 'try them too much' or threaten other women… because you're supposed to be part of the sorority.

You must always stand out and always be very grateful… but never forget the system is fixed, so find how to acknowledge it but remember to be grateful.

You must never grow old, never be rude, never show off, never be selfish, never stumble, never fail or show fear and, of course, you must never be sassy.

It's very hard, it's too contradictory and nobody gives you a medal or says thank you. And it turns out, in fact, that not only are you doing everything WRONG, but also, everything that happens is YOUR FAULT.

I'm tired of seeing myself and every woman doing the impossible for others to love us."

- America Ferrera as Gloria

Barbie (2023)