I have to say you are so naive. In fact, so many times it is women who provoke the conflict/flight. Yet women often got away, while men who barely want to defend themselve got beaten by other men.
Why? This is the crulty that men do to each other. Men just want an excuse to get rid of other men. The sole intention is to please the women such that women would worship him and have sex with him.
There is an old saying. If a man kills a woman, there are two victims, one lost her life and one tossed his life in trash. If a women kills a man, there are three victims, one lost his life, one stupid enough to be used to commit the murder and toss his life in trash, while she got away with little punishment.
Nothing to be proud of. Grow up.